若遇不悦之待，遇不公之论，蒙错谬之弊，应审查对方之动机。若其动机出于良善，出于造就人，纵使方式不对亦当宽谅之，并从中吸取教训——避免自己遭损，又使对方得改正；若其动机不纯，自当以公义责之，并远离之。

对于别人的意见或建议尤其要谨慎，当审查其动机，在审查其可行性——是否了解情况？是否了解我？是否出于经验主义？是否能改善或解决问题？会带来什么影响？然后参考这些意见和建议，充分调动自己的知识和智慧，做出明智的选择。

怒气、怨气常会吞噬人的理智，撕破人的感情。带着怒气或怨气与人交谈，常常不会解决问题，反而会堵住别人的话以致不得深入交谈不得真见、忠言，甚至吐出污秽人的话导致问题的恶化或伤到感情。故君子决策或与人交谈时，不可怀着怒气或怨气；若遇着怒气、怨气当先避其锋芒，再伺机导之，若不可导则避之，待其消泄殆尽方与之交谈。

人体自然情况：

晚上9-11点为免疫系统(淋巴)排毒时间,此段时间应安静或听音乐

晚间11-凌晨1点, 肝的排毒,需在熟睡中进行。

凌晨1-3点, 胆的排毒,亦同。

凌晨3-5点, 肺的排毒。此即为何咳嗽的人在这段时间咳得最剧烈, 因排毒动作已走到肺;不应用止咳药,以免抑制废积物的排除。

早晨5-7点, 大肠的排毒,应上厕所排便。

早晨7-9点, 小肠大量吸收营养的时段,应吃早餐。 疗病者最好早吃,

在6点半前, 养生者在7点半前, 不吃早餐者应改变习惯,即使拖到9、10点吃都比不吃好。

半夜至凌晨4点为脊椎造血时段,必须熟睡,不宜熬夜。

        I don't know what does she look like, but when she passes by I can recognize her.

         留意察看你的思想停駐、逗留在什麽樣的事物上，那掌控你心思的意念就會決定你的行動。

        Today, my dear fellow,  when you are laughing at the ancients thought that the sun travels around the earth, you have not even recognize that you are making the same mistake. More worse, you are living in the modernization era. The moon travels around the earth does not mean that the sun and the other planets travel around the earth. Besides, the earth let all sorts of living things live on her; she is great and your homestead, my homestead.

        性本高雅者，于市井中亦可見其飄逸之氣。高雅非自視清高，而藐視衆人。乃有學識，不痴言妄語，不入粗俗之流。堅而有勇，抵得濁流，抗得瘴氣。擧而有節，止而有度，教而有喻。 

           假話全不講，真話不全講。

Life can not always go well, but you'd better love it whatever it is--God has good will behind that. Here is an essay which might be good news for you.

                                                                                                       Henry David Thoreau
However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hard names.It is not so bad as you are.It looks poorest when you are richest.The fault-finder will find faults in paradise.Love your life,poor as it is.You may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a poor-house.The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man's abode;the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.I do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there,and have as cheering thoughts,as in a palace.The town's poor seem to me often to live the most independent lives of any.May be they are simply great enough to receive without misgiving.Most think that they are above being supported by the town;but it often happens that they are not above supporting themselves by dishonest means.which should be more disreputable.Cultivate poverty like a garden herb,like sage.Do not trouble yourself much to get new things,whether clothes or friends,Turn the old,return to them.Things do not change;we change.Sell your clothes and keep your thoughts. 

     Just now, a storm wrapped this city, which is near the sea. It was as dark as night, the win was howling, and the rain was beating the windows as demons wanted to break in to devour you.

    But what is behind that? Someone can see the rainbow or the sunshine.

        古人說要惻隱揆德。有一個簡單的方法就是問問他們的家人和朋友，他們做的和說的真的一樣嗎。“沒有好樹結坏果子；也沒有坏樹結好果子。凡樹木看果子，就可以認出它來。” 

         絕對化是一種極端，甚爲危險，切勿為之。萬物之運行，生生不息。

         耶穌教誨我們，吃進去的不會污穢人，吐出來的才會傷人。

    食肉非為害也，害者乃以爲食肉不可以得道之見，乃執于此相。

    上者之食肉，食而不見；是食肉非食肉。